Findadeath Update: For the Love of Dick

Fact:  In 1991 Dick Sargent who portrayed Darren #2 on Bewitched came out as a gay man. 

Actually a tabloid snitched that he was part of the Gays and Sargent took it by the horns and went with it.

Fact:   Elizabeth Montgomery aka Samantha on Bewitched was down with the gays.  Here's a quote from an interview Lizzie did with The Advocate:

“We talked about it on the set that this was about people not being allowed to be what they really are. If you think about it, Bewitched is about repression in general and all the frustration and trouble it can cause. It was a neat message to get across to people at that time in a subtle way.”

Being an all around groovy gal who supports her pals, Elizabeth sat alongside Mr. Sargent in a convertible to co-Grand Marshall the 1992 West Hollywood Gay Pride Parade.

May not be Fact, but I want it to be:

When asked to comment about the day and their being in the parade, Lizzie allegedly said she was doing it,

"For the love of Dick."

Photo by Andrew Whitenack

Please let this be true.

In 2016 Dearly Departed Tours was in the Gay Pride Parade. 

Look!  We have Lizzie's wicker settee in Dearly Departed Tours.

Thanks Andrew Whitenack and Mark Langlois

Dirk Bogarde 1921 - 1991 Findadeath Update

Dirk Bogarde

March 28, 1921 - May 8, 1999

"I love the camera and it loves me."

Dirk was a British stage and screen actor.  He turned down the role of the lead male in Gigi and was considered for Dr. Zhivago.  He never really reached "legendary status" in the States.  He made a couple of big budget films in the US, but they didn't perform well so he stuck with his success in Britain.

A list of his performances are on the IMDB

TV?  Never!  I don't want my audience going for a piss or making tea while I'm hard at work.

He was also an author and talked to music.

Truthfully, I knew very little about Bogarde and his career, so I looked up a few interviews on youtube.  One thing for sure, Dirk found himself absolutely fascinating.  I've spent a lot of time with older actors and while they do have very interesting stories to share, 90% of the time it's exhausting to listen to them.  

EXHAUSTING

Wait, don't get up, I'm about to say something very interesting.

Dirk was a "lifelong bachelor".  He lived with a man name Anthony Forwood who used to be married to Glynis Johns.  

Dirk and Tony's London flat.

He had a stroke in November of 1987 after which he quit smoking.

Forwood died of liver cancer.

In 1996 Bogarde had surgery to unblock his arteries, after which he had a massive stroke.  He was paralyzed on one side of his body.  He spent the rest of his life in a wheelchair.  His speech was also severely affected.  Can you imagine?  Him not being able to talk?  What?  How will they hear my interesting stories?!

But don't fret.  He managed to complete the final volume (VOLUME) of his autobiography which included information about his fascinating stroke and how he learned to live with it.

The day before he died was spent with the Angel of Death herself, Lauren Bacall. 

He died of a heart attack on May 8, 1999.  He was 78 years old.

His ashes were scattered over his home in the South of France.

Wanna see his mailbox?

Trivia:  Bogarde chose Brigitte Bardot as a co-star in Doctor at Sea, thus bringing her to the attention of the non-English speaking world.

Official Website

Publix Supermarket

Wow, Publix likes gay people.

This is a far cry from 1981 when I worked at one of the markets in Ft. Lauderdale.

I was pulled aside and was told under no circumstances could I wear an earring while at work or I would be fired.